Last fall, I lost my wedding ring. Of course, when I realized it was missing, I did all of the normal things—I tried to pinpoint where and when the ring was misplaced, I retraced my steps, and I prayed—all to no avail.
One thing I didn't do, was panic. This had happened before, both to myself and to my husband. Eventually our rings always turned up. And so, as the weeks and months rolled by, I joyfully, prayerfully held on to my assumption that the issue would resolve itself.
Then we decided to move. I was certain the process would shake the thing out of hiding. After all, I had prayed an awful lot. God was on my side. Surely combing through every dark nook and clandestine cranny of our home would expose the renegade ring. But it didn't.
My last night in our house was spent alone, working against a book deadline into the wee hours, all the while praying, "God, please restore my ring." But he didn't.
The following morning, early, I met up with my husband and son. They had slept in spare beds at a friend's house; our beds were packed in a pod, already on their way to New York. Rat terrier in lap, I followed my family—one fully loaded car behind another—to the cable company's home office in Savannah, to drop off a rented router and cable box. It was our final stop before crossing the Tomochichi Bridge out of Georgia.
On my way back to the parking lot, I stopped in the ladies room. There, bathed in a shaft of light, resting on the counter next to the sink, was a silver ring. It was obviously costume, meant for a teen-age girl, not worth more than a few dollars. It was so well worn, I was sure it had been purposefully left behind; if not, of course, I would have turned it in to the lady behind the counter. The back of the band was raw, brassy metal, but the silver plated front—a five-petal flower, missing the (fake) gemstone that used to sparkle in its center—shone like the sun. I glanced heavenward with a chuckle. "Thank you, Jesus." I knew he wouldn't let me leave Savannah without a wedding ring.
With a smile and somewhat shaky fingers, I tried it on. And it fit. Perfectly.
I will not leave you desolate: I come unto you. ~ John 14:18 ASV
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I loooove stories of, "You have turned my mourning into dancing, Lord... now my lips are filled with your praise."... Because God delights in our praises to Him. Thanks for sharing this, C! :)
ReplyDeleteYou are most welcome, sweet Vikki. And I couldn't agree more.... I love hearing stories of how God shows up in our lives, and how he answers prayers (often, in ways we don't expect and can't anticipate)! :o)
DeleteI couldn't agree more, Vikki. Lovely.
ReplyDeleteA-men! :o)
DeleteHeya Katie! Another lovely writer that I admire, for sure! :D
DeleteWhat a lovely story of God's sufficient grace as well as an excellent example of a gracious attitude on your part, Catherine.
ReplyDelete(Incidentally, in preparation to move FROM Schenectady, NY, my daughter-in-law dragged an overstuffed chair to the curb for trash up. In the process, the fabric covering the back ripped and out rolled her wedding ring--which had been lost years beforehand!)
So perfect, Pam! I figured something similar would happen for us. Not this time, tho. I am convinced, however, that this story has not yet met its final conclusion.
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What a lovely story, Catherine! I can't help but feel that your original ring will still turn up, though, in the most unexpected of places. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Charla! Soooo nice to connect with you here. And I agree with you. I think it will fall out of a sock one day, or the dog will cough it up or something. Who knows.
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Great story Catherine! My Mom also lost her wedding ring. She looked everywhere and could not find it. My Dad could not afford another one at the time and so my Mom went without..she was very down for such a long time. Then one spring while weeding in the garden she looked down when she saw something shiny...you guessed it. 3 years after she had lost it, she found it! Joy filled our house that night I tell you! I think my Mom must have cried for days afterwards...tears of joy! Blessings!
ReplyDeleteGood thing you didn't panic. I, on the other hand, had to skim down to the end of the story to find out what happened before reading it more carefully. Hopefully, it will turn up when you unpack. In any case, you certainly gave us a good story.
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